I Never Want to See You Again (856 hits)
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Submitted by Holly Golitely <hollywon1.at.yahoo.com> (View user info) at 2008-03-20 04:59:11 EDT
I think a lot about what people say and take it too literally most times.
I don't think anyone has ever told me directly that they never want to see me again, but it just crossed my mind what a terrible thing that is. First of all, it shows that people take a lot for granted; their sight, for example. What an easily removable treasure. I could pop an eye with two fingers, probably. They are so vulnerable. Eyelashes and lids don't exactly create an ideal fortress. They are the crappiest protection mechanism we have.
It is severe to believe that you'd be confident thinking you'd never want to see someone ever again. That's a big deal. A lot of people lose contact, but to specifically state that you'd rather never come across that person again is kind of huge.
Not only are you taking sight for granted, but also life. I have a lot of beliefs that might enable rectification even after "death", but a lot of people don't. If not, you're saying that you're okay with them dying- in a way. Their life is so offensive that it is meaningless to you, and yours would be more satisfying without them.
That's kind of crazy.
It really just shows that you are scared of that person, I'll bet. You're scared that they will hurt you, so you want nothing to do with them. You temporarily gave them some kind of power that was abused and now you're taking it back by disregarding them entirely.
Of course, our culture is one of extremes. I am "freezing." It is "hot as hell." I HATE her/him because he/she has MY purse. How FAR are we going?
So, I guess, people don't really mean it, but it is actually a terrible thing to say. Why don't we spend more time searching for common ground instead of dwelling on differences and saying things we don't actually mean? Why do we feel so angry when someone isn't what we thought they should be?
P.S. Does anyone have a dry erase or chalk board that they'd like to sell?
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Submitted by redskieslookfake (user info) at 2008-04-17 16:26:10 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
and why not
Submitted by j0andre1 (user info) at 2008-04-17 15:23:43 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
If you stare at that parrot's eyeball for 10 minutes it starts to vibrate.
Submitted by c1ndy (user info) at 2008-03-29 13:26:45 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
hellloooo
Submitted by mrwolf (user info) at 2008-03-20 18:21:26 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
Me and my long term partner just split up and I never want to see her again, and you're absolutely right...
It's the power over me that I gave her by having absolute trust that hurt me, and it's the fear I now have that she could hurt me futher.
I spent over a month terrified I would bump into her in case it stirred any feelings in me because I so desperately want to feel nothing.
Well played.
-P
Submitted by sideshow (user info) at 2008-03-20 17:54:15 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
"Why don't we spend more time searching for common ground instead of dwelling on differences and saying things we don't actually mean? Why do we feel so angry when someone isn't what we thought they should be? "
I guess that has to do with how people think....people always believe that the world they create within their mind is the best possible, therefore when other people don't fit into the imgainary world, they get upset. If people didn't have expectations, they would never be disappointed, but if people didn't have expectations, then you wouldn't really have high goals or standards.
When people aren't what we think they should be, we get mad because they don't fit into the way we believe the world should be. Unfortunate really, but what can ya do?
Try to view the world for what it is, not for what you want it to be, and you will be happier.
PS, I don't have a whiteboard / chalkboard to sell you....
Submitted by Doodles (user info) at 2008-03-20 16:33:41 EDT (#)
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You were a whore weren't you?I remember you being a whore. Or an alter.
Submitted by Rhymenocerous (user info) at 2008-03-20 16:13:38 EDT (#)
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breakfast at tiffany's was one of the worst movies i've ever seen and probably one of the worst movies ever made.
Submitted by QueenAshlee (user info) at 2008-03-20 14:30:44 EDT (#)
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Submitted by haikumikoo (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:54:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
I"m pretty sure I can see Jesus in that bird's beak though.
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Ha, I see it too. ITS A MIRACLE! I bet that bird can cure AIDS.
Submitted by shadow (user info) at 2008-03-20 14:04:24 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
sigh.
Submitted by Ltap (user info) at 2008-03-20 13:49:28 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
O RLY?
Submitted by TheUniter (user info) at 2008-03-20 13:41:57 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Submitted by Axolotl (user info) at 2008-03-20 13:20:02 EDT (#)
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I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
I have a heart that will never be tamed
I knew you were somethin' special when you spoke my name
Now I can't wait
To see you again
I've got a way of knowin' when somethin' is right
I feel like I must have known you in another life
'Cause I felt this deep connection when you looked in my eyes (I can't wait)
Now I can't wait
To see you again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got this crazy feelin' deep inside
When you called and asked to see me tomorrow night
I'm not a mind reader but I'm readin' the signs (bet you can't wait)
Bet you can't wait
To see me again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
I have a heart that will never be tamed
I knew you were somethin' special when you spoke my name
Now I can't wait
To see you again
I've got a way of knowin' when somethin' is right
I feel like I must have known you in another life
'Cause I felt this deep connection when you looked in my eyes (I can't wait)
Now I can't wait
To see you again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got this crazy feelin' deep inside
When you called and asked to see me tomorrow night
I'm not a mind reader but I'm readin' the signs (bet you can't wait)
Bet you can't wait
To see me again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
I have a heart that will never be tamed
I knew you were somethin' special when you spoke my name
Now I can't wait
To see you again
I've got a way of knowin' when somethin' is right
I feel like I must have known you in another life
'Cause I felt this deep connection when you looked in my eyes (I can't wait)
Now I can't wait
To see you again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got this crazy feelin' deep inside
When you called and asked to see me tomorrow night
I'm not a mind reader but I'm readin' the signs (bet you can't wait)
Bet you can't wait
To see me again
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
I got my sight set on you and I'm ready to aim
The last time I freaked out
I just kept lookin' down
I st-st-stuttered when
You asked me what I'm thinkin' 'bout
Felt like I couldn't breathe
You asked what's wrong with me
My best friend Leslie said
"Oh, She's just bein' Miley"
The next time we hang out
I will redeem myself
My heart can't rest 'til then
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
Whoa, whoa, I
I can't wait
To see you again
Submitted by thecaes (user info) at 2008-03-20 12:29:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
GAH GIANT BIRD!!
I think you're right about being scared by the person; that they've abused you and you're frightened to get hurt again. It doesn't always have to do with fear, though. You can just be tired of someone's bullshit; tired of dealing with their unacceptable behaviour. Or maybe you just know the person is bad news and a bad influence on you or on those you love and you don't want them around any more. Or maybe they're on a road to self destruction and you know you can't stop it and you don't want to have to watch it.
Thought provoking wee post, Holly.
Submitted by celtic1888 (user info) at 2008-03-20 11:16:20 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
No Comment
Submitted by MudWhistle (user info) at 2008-03-20 10:34:28 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
my mom and to an extent my wife can say the most mean and hateful things in an argument. I never really understood it. Even when fighting I don't say things that I know I can never take back.
Also, I love huge pictures that make me look at things I don't usually look at. For example I know what a parrot looks like but with this picture I get to see the complexity of a parrot, the gouges in his beak with probably all have a story of their own and so on.
Submitted by lungfish (user info) at 2008-03-20 10:27:46 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
In a fit of rage, my wife told somebody once, "I hope you fucking die." That somebody died in a car wreck the following week. She felt kinda bad about that one.
Then there's her ex-fiance, who just killed people...literally. I'm quite glad that he's dead, myself.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2008-03-20 10:13:30 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Fools, it's not Jesus, it's Danny Trejo.
Submitted by Fartman (user info) at 2008-03-20 09:58:54 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
I see Jesus too, and he is not looking happy.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2008-03-20 09:25:57 EDT (#)
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that's a huge bitch!
my ex-wife's father told her he didn't have a daughter anymore. I was there. it was quite possibly the most horrible thing I've seen someone do to someone else. we didn't talk to him for five years, they're mending thier fences now but to this day he has not acknowladged the hurtful way he treated her.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2008-03-20 08:35:19 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
I never want to see you.
Submitted by Progr3ss (user info) at 2008-03-20 08:29:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
My what a big bird you have...
Submitted by LittleMonster (user info) at 2008-03-20 08:13:50 EDT (#)
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Gosh you're deep.
Rather sensitive too.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2008-03-20 07:30:50 EDT (#)
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HOLY GIANT PARROT BATMAN.
Seriously, this is scarier than "Attack of the 50ft Woman".
Submitted by sir_cowman (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:57:32 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
Submitted by haikumikoo (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:54:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
I"m pretty sure I can see Jesus in that bird's beak though.
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I think that i too can see the lord jesus. awesome.
Submitted by F.J.Bell (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:56:06 EDT (#)
Ranking: 2
How big is that parrot?
Language is extreme because it has more resonance. If someone said 'I'm mildly hungry because I haven't eaten in a couple of hours' it wouldn't have the same effect as 'I'm bloody starving.' But that's what people say all the time. They're not REALLY starving, just dramatic.
Blame Hollywood.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:55:02 EDT (#)
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No Comment
Submitted by haikumikoo (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:54:52 EDT (#)
Ranking: 1
I"m pretty sure I can see Jesus in that bird's beak though.
Submitted by haikumikoo (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:53:50 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
I'm actually angry at my roommate for linking me to this.
Submitted by sir_cowman (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:51:35 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
I'm not annoyed, homie, this is just really boring. you're over-thinking it. next time post some lolcats with some boobies and i'll be more entertained.
Submitted by hollygolitely (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:10:17 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
Not a compelling or offensive post... so your annoyance seems weird.
Submitted by hollygolitely (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:07:39 EDT (#)
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I am so outrageous.
Submitted by sir_cowman (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:04:33 EDT (#)
Ranking: -2
shut uuuuuuup.
i doon't caaaare.
you're duuuuumb.
Submitted by pen_name (user info) at 2008-03-20 05:01:21 EDT (#)
Ranking: 0
i think that picture just gave me bird flu