Good Friends ...... Or A Tough Call (2176 hits)
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Submitted by Tiger Lilly (View user info) at 2007-11-08 03:30:42 EST
It was one of those Sunday drives that begin with no concrete destination in mind. It was a beautiful Sunday and our plan was to drive around looking at the beautiful New England fall foliage. It is absolutely beautiful this time of season and the leaves have begun the change. Leaves just about every color you could think of; bright and light shades of reds, orange, yellows, browns, blues and just about every other shade high up or falling from an enormous `Oak Tree.
New England is beautiful this time of year especially the drive towards the ocean on RT9. We drive up the hills and valleys but on this particular Sunday we chose to drive all back roads on our trip. We wanted to visit some different antiques stores along our route. Personally there is nothing more interesting than an antique piece. A piece of history or a piece of furniture that is so old it could date back to the 1700s. I love learning about antiques and really love (and I know most of you will think I'm even more crazy than I am) having these old pieces, these historical antiques if you will, in my formal living room.
I just really love my house and all the silly things I've used to decorated my house. And after the other day, love my house more.
The end of our beautiful Sunday afternoon road trip led us to the run down home of my husband's friend Dave.
From the beginning Steve told me of Dave and I had heard the stories and shenanigans that went on while he and Steve worked together third shift. Now my Steve hasn't always been an angel but he was Dave's angel in the sense that he looked after him. He locked him in his room when Dave wanted to sell his car to go buy crack. He wanted to punch Steve's face in with a brick because Steve wouldn't let him out of his room to go by coke. Basically Steve was able to keep tabs on him the past. Truth is, you can only bring a horse to water. You can't make it drink.
Sunday we ended up at Dave's house. It was Pats vs. Colts and everyone was excited to watch the game. Everyone but me and Steve. I was sitting on the couch alone inside while their two year old was rushed right into her room and while Steve and Dave were outside talking. Steve was giving him a rash of shit about why his place looked like a drug house. A house that no one had cleaned or bought groceries for or made safe for a two year old baby to live. I looked around and there was no way I could sit in such filth, unwind and watch NFL Sunday. This place was foul. All I could think about was the baby.
The Dirty diapers and plates were piled high to the ceiling. Cabinet doors falling off the hinges. Dirty diapers, filthy rugs and walls no toilet paper. NO tissue paper, no paper towels and the refrigerator were beginning to grow mold.
There was however the constant visit to the bedroom to close the door behind them. This ritual happened every 10-15 minutes. They would walk in, stay in there for a few, and walk out again rubbing and pulling on their red noses.
Steve and I both seem to think they're either snorting Oxy or H but not sure which.
My worry is for this poor child. I know 'technically' this is none my business but I can't just sit by and watch this happen to her. She was born with problems with her sight, and 'I' can't just sit by and watch dealers dropping bags of 'H' in while the sweet baby is sleeping in another room.
I know you guys really don't fucking care about anything but yourselves on her, but please, I need help with this child and done know whether I should call DCY for just ignore this whole situation.
There is a baby here whose parents are abusing drugs daily. She's neglected and two.
A wedding Picture. See with it what you may. :/
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Submitted by Caulaincourt (user info) at 2008-01-07 17:01:09 EST (#)
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nice paint job on the teeth there, 50 cent
Submitted by BubbaEarl (user info) at 2007-11-13 12:11:19 EST (#)
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this post reeks of "attentionbore".
why the fuck would you attach a picture of yourself to a post like this?
mr & mrs sideburn's wedding pics don't have shit on yours in the trailer trash stakes.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-13 11:28:11 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-13 03:37:22 EST (#)
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like you would ever say you were wrong!
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I'm wrong lots of times. Most times actually.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-13 03:45:44 EST (#)
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Update for those who care. My accusations were right on and what I wrote was validated to my husband. The parents are starting a program on Tuesday. It all started with a broken wrist and a doctor who prescribed Oxy which once ran out became the next closest and cheaper option.
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We can but hope. Programs are only any good if the people attending are willing and able to change.
Sometimes just sometimes I talk sense. Thats why women cant work me out. Yeah THAT'S THE REASON.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-13 03:38:27 EST (#)
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ps it is good it is sorted though. And before emily chick - i have seen false accusations rip a family apart. Do you have kids? No? STFU then.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-13 03:37:22 EST (#)
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like you would ever say you were wrong!
Submitted by Fungah (user info) at 2007-11-11 16:03:01 EST (#)
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They should sell the baby into (white?)slavery to pay for their drug habit, they could probably get two or three months worth of heron for it.
Submitted by Fungah (user info) at 2007-11-11 16:01:01 EST (#)
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Are those metal teeth?
Tigerlilly, do you have metal teeth?
Metal teeth are awesome.
Your metal teeth must be able to chomp through stuff.
Do you have metal teeth?
Submitted by BeforeEmily (user info) at 2007-11-11 09:09:35 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-10 12:42:23 PST (#)
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Update for those who care. My accusations were right on and what I wrote was validated to my husband. The parents are starting a program on Tuesday. It all started with a broken wrist and a doctor who prescribed Oxy which once ran out became the next closest and cheaper option.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-10 15:42:23 EST (#)
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Update for those who care. My accusations were right on and what I wrote was validated to my husband. The parents are starting a program on Tuesday. It all started with a broken wrist and a doctor who prescribed Oxy which once ran out became the next closest and cheaper option.
Submitted by BeforeEmily (user info) at 2007-11-09 22:46:28 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 01:46:16 PST (#)
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I think it is kind you are concerned.
However, shoddy cabinets and dirty rugs and even dirty nappys everywhere doesn't make a bad parent. We all have 'bad' days when we have kids when the house is a pig sty. We all have different standards of cleanliness. Besides, if the kids are clean and well fed and clothed, a tidy house is neither here nor there. If it is in a real bad state (like a 'Life of Grime' bad) then perhaps you should speak with them about it first. Untidy housekeeping is not just a sign of drug abuse or laziness but also an indication of depression too.
The disappearing etc is more serious. However, shit like that you have to be certain you have the right end of the stick. Mud sticks and if you make false accusations it can wreck a family. Could they have been arguing or any other shit like that? When me and my bloke disappear like that it is to have a sneaky kiss. Or row. Why not confront them? Then if you still suspect, report them. If they are sniffing whatever, a threat from you migh be all it takes to help them wanna sort themselves out.
Whatever you decide, as long as you are convinced you are doing the right thing then I guess you are.
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you've got to be kidding. why are we making excuses for these people? and for the record, a false accusation will absolutely NOT tear apart a family. The worst thing that can happen is the DHS or SS or CPS or whatever will go out to the house, investigate, and if they find the parents to be responsible, they'll close the case. That's it. The SS system in this country is so underfunded and understaffed that they don't take away kids just for the fuck of it. It really takes a lot for children to be taken away from their parents, especially their mothers. Shouldn't we always err on the side of caution, especially when it comes to the little ones? Who cares if the parents get offended "how dare you, i love my child" well then they will be given ample opportunity to defend themselves. I happen to deal with these issues daily in my work, I know what I'm talking about, if I may say so. Follow your conscience.
Submitted by BeforeEmily (user info) at 2007-11-09 22:41:44 EST (#)
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Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 02:09:00 PST (#)
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Well of course they aren't fit parents Japeto, they're clearly not middle class enough to take heroin safely.
Still, foster care and state rearing is not a good option for any child. It's pretty darn shitty to be honest.
Then you've got the whole issue of Tiger's hubby losing his friends, the betrayal, the terrible damage it'd wreak on the child's parents... there are lots of factors to consider and that's just from looking at what we know from this small, post-sized, porthole into the situation. I think it's fascinating to be honest. Besides, it's a true story and that's worth something.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 02:08:30 PST (#)
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who cares about these crackhead parents? your priority is that damn kid
Submitted by inion_de_trua (user info) at 2007-11-09 16:27:07 EST (#)
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btw call dcf.
Submitted by something_or_other (user info) at 2007-11-09 15:58:15 EST (#)
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NEEDS MORE DESU
Submitted by ubetidid (user info) at 2007-11-09 13:00:53 EST (#)
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absolutely you should call.
don't wait.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-09 12:57:00 EST (#)
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Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2007-11-08 18:17:12 EST (#)
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"Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve. "
"Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:03:52 EST (#)
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Steve knows him better than I. They are friends and Steve has been here before with him. This time, he has a baby that is in danger. And why would I have even asked for advice if I were leaving it up to Steve.?"
Took you a whole six and a half hours to flip-flop.
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*ALL. Leaving it ALL up to Steve. And by the way cheesedick, he had already made the call and I was unaware of all of it. So STFU.
Submitted by sicosemen (user info) at 2007-11-09 06:50:20 EST (#)
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http://www.ubersite.com/m/89513
Submitted by netimportant (user info) at 2007-11-08 22:57:02 EST (#)
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Everyone here is looking for attention, otherwise they'd write their thoughts in a diary.
Submitted by forthewin (user info) at 2007-11-08 22:53:48 EST (#)
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You forgot to mention how beautiful it was. Tell us one more time.
Submitted by r0fl (user info) at 2007-11-08 22:39:08 EST (#)
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Get out of my backyard.
Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2007-11-08 18:17:12 EST (#)
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"Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve. "
"Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:03:52 EST (#)
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Steve knows him better than I. They are friends and Steve has been here before with him. This time, he has a baby that is in danger. And why would I have even asked for advice if I were leaving it up to Steve.?"
Took you a whole six and a half hours to flip-flop.
You are either an attention whore, or a horrible person. Anything else and you would have already made the call.
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 17:46:40 EST (#)
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Submitted by Flack (user info) at 2007-11-08 17:14:31 EST (#)
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Dear Uber,
My husband's friend is a drug user and lives in filth with a two year old. What should I do?
Love,
TL
Dear TL,
UHHHHHHHHHHH....call fucking child protective services immediately!!! Does it really have to be spelled the fuck out?
Love,
Flack
It really shouldnt even be worth considering that you call Child Protective Services before asking a bunch of internet assholes what the best course of action is.
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One day I'll be able to write this succinctly.
Submitted by Flack (user info) at 2007-11-08 17:14:31 EST (#)
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Dear Uber,
My husband's friend is a drug user and lives in filth with a two year old. What should I do?
Love,
TL
Dear TL,
UHHHHHHHHHHH....call fucking child protective services immediately!!! Does it really have to be spelled the fuck out?
Love,
Flack
It really shouldnt even be worth considering that you call Child Protective Services before asking a bunch of internet assholes what the best course of action is.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:36:04 EST (#)
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Submitted by i_can_get_you_a_toe (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:21:30 EST (#)
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fair enough, you don't lose anything - however you may become known as 'that bitch of a wife of yours'
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Ha. That's funny and it would never happen. Not in Steve's presence. It'll be a cold day in hell.
Friend or not.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:24:31 EST (#)
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Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:20:09 EST (#)
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I still think you're a shameless attention whore. You haven't convinced me.
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Convince you of what? You think I'm a shameless attention whore. Another one I've never heard.
Submitted by i_can_get_you_a_toe (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:21:30 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:08:22 EST (#)
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Well, if he told my husband that he was high on something but didn't go into detail, would that be considered having an idea that he was doing something?
ONCE AGAIN...my husband has been here before with this guy. He is an addict. My husband did an intervention. He is still my husbands friend. He is still an addict, but now, he has a child. He will always be my husbands friend. I on the other hand will lose nothing either way.
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Not really, I tell people that i'm drunk all the time just to get out of driving duties and visiting the grandparents.
fair enough, you don't lose anything - however you may become known as 'that bitch of a wife of yours'
*shrugs*
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:20:09 EST (#)
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Jesus Christ, way to get all butthurt over someone dissenting and disagreeing.
If you hate this situation so much, may I suggest you get off Ubersite and puzzle out a way of solving it?
I still think you're a shameless attention whore. You haven't convinced me.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:08:22 EST (#)
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Submitted by i_can_get_you_a_toe (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:00:21 EST (#)
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unless you're there snorting along with them, you have no idea what they are doing, wait until you're sure before you stick your nose in someone else's business.
and be prepared to lose friends over this, it doesn't matter if what you're doing is right, no one likes a nark.
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Well, if he told my husband that he was high on something but didn't go into detail, would that be considered having an idea that he was doing something?
ONCE AGAIN...my husband has been here before with this guy. He is an addict. My husband did an intervention. He is still my husbands friend. He is still an addict, but now, he has a child. He will always be my husbands friend. I on the other hand will lose nothing either way.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:03:52 EST (#)
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Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2007-11-08 14:54:34 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve.
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One of tho things is going on here.
1) It wasn't that bad, but you wanted uberdrama so you exaggereated what you saw so you could talk about your terrible choice and try to seem interesting despite a day of antiquing (that word is so gay I don't know how to spell it).
You have no idea just how bad it really was so you know shit and I would never consider having a child taken from their parents unless there was real cause for concern.
2) You are a spinless cunt who will leave it up to Steve, and judging by how he is whipped enough to go antiquing he won't have the balls to do anything, so you have effectively written this kid off.
Steve knows him better than I. They are friends and Steve has been here before with him. This time, he has a baby that is in danger. And why would I have even asked for advice if I were leaving it up to Steve?
Submitted by i_can_get_you_a_toe (user info) at 2007-11-08 15:00:21 EST (#)
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unless you're there snorting along with them, you have no idea what they are doing, wait until you're sure before you stick your nose in someone else's business.
and be prepared to lose friends over this, it doesn't matter if what you're doing is right, no one likes a nark.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 14:56:30 EST (#)
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Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:57:43 EST (#)
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I find it both pathetic and sad that:
a) You have nothing better to do with your time then to worry about who I do and don't talk to about said issues. This happened 4 days ago and since then I've been at work all day and when I leave work I go and pick up the twins and take them to our house. I watch them and them my husband returns home from work. Not really a good conversation topic at dinner with 9 year olds. Not really an after dinner conversation with 9 year olds since we help with homework or watch some TV together and they do have ears and they can hear things. That being said, we have every intention of talking with a social worker. Where you live, do they have social worker trees growing in your backyard? We don't have them either.
b) You just assume that I haven't found resources online. I have. The internet is wonderful for such moral dilemmas. It doesn't however make the situation any easier for all parties involved and we know what needs to be done. We're just not sure how to handle it. I don't have a lot of experience with this type of situation.
The sad truth is, there are many people who've also gone through similar experiences and I was hoping I might get some tips, information, ideas, help or whatever from someone with a background in this that may have first hand knowledge.
I'm not veiling shit. And since you haven't been around that long (even though you're an alter) and know shit from shinola if I want 'hits/attention' I'd do another TMI. And if you knew ANYTHING about me you would know that I would never even think of using a child or a situation such as this to garner 'hits'. You're pathetic and that was the most ridiculous theory I've heard thus far. But since you assume that's what I'm doing, thanks for stopping by. AGAIN
Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2007-11-08 14:54:34 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve.
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One of tho things is going on here.
1) It wasn't that bad, but you wanted uberdrama so you exaggereated what you saw so you could talk about your terrible choice and try to seem interesting despite a day of antiquing (that word is so gay I don't know how to spell it).
2) You are a spinless cunt who will leave it up to Steve, and judging by how he is whipped enough to go antiquing he won't have the balls to do anything, so you have effectively written this kid off. I am glad when I got married my wife's sense of right and wrong didn't evaporate. I don't give a fuck if it is his friend, you shouldn't give a fuck if it is his friend, we are talking about a kid.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2007-11-08 14:41:18 EST (#)
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All I know is that posts like these are making people ignore MY outstanding post from yesterday...and that hurts.
I may cut myself.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:58:20 EST (#)
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I don't get all the hate on this post. It's weird. Did Tigerlilly try to hack Ubersite to death or something?
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:57:43 EST (#)
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I find it both pathetic and sad that:
a) you have no other social resources apart from your husband and Ubersite to which to turn when advice is needed, and
b) you have an information resource as great as the Internet at your fingertips and instead of attempting to use it constructively, you come here and expect to find your answer.
The sad truth is, in all likelihood, you already know the answer. This being a moral dilemma, you have all the information you require to make an informed decision. This is quite possibly little more than a moderately-veiled attempt to garner hits/attention. Not much "intelligence" needed to see that.
Short form: STFU and find your own path.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:55:40 EST (#)
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Submitted by Axolotl (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:34:00 EST (#)
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when people from your real life know about your blog, it's advisable to leave them out of it.
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These people don't know about this blog because they don't own a computer.
I suppose they could find out through a little nutty birdy in which case that would suck and would be spiteful for said person to do so, but it wouldn't surprise me one bit.
Should they find out, oh well. I don't care. They don't.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:49:36 EST (#)
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Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:10:20 EST (#)
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Additionally, you yourself claimed that this was a drunk post. Are you meaning to tell me you've never responded in a similar fashion to another user's drunk post whilst stone sober?
Sorry. I come up with additional arguments far too often after I've tried to let something go. NOW I'm done.
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No. I was serious. You've picked up on this place nicely after a month or so. Kudos to you but you read way too much into that comment. I'm sorry.
As far as me responding to another's drunk or stoned post...respond how? By telling someone to smash their head in with a hammer? Possible but is not really in my character to do so.
Twatflaps? Now that's one I've never heard. Ha.
"This was a stupid post"
If being worried for the safety of a child is stupid, fair enough. This was stupid.
I don't care about "ratings" but rather irrelevant, dumb and immature comments.
And yes the majority of people who frequent Uber are mean, harsh and savage. There is however a small percentage of really smart, highly educated people who have helpful and sound advice or have experienced a similar situation where a child was at risk and the steps they may have taken to get help. Some people here believe it or not have intelligence and offer better advice then banging ones head with a hammer.
Perhaps, as you said, this isn't the forum to pose such questions but other than the rare 3:30 AM drunk post and sitting at my desk all day every day I have limited time to discuss such issues with anyone other than my husband. I'm not all that comfortable talking with my coworkers about my husband's drug addicted friend.
So you see
Submitted by BLITZKREIG_BOB (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:34:03 EST (#)
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I had a very similar friend. His kid went to live with the grandparents after he OD'ed and the girl got arrested for the homocide.
Submitted by Axolotl (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:34:00 EST (#)
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when people from your real life know about your blog, it's advisable to leave them out of it.
Submitted by Director (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:26:27 EST (#)
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Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:52:49 EST (#)
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ps. Needs more rape.
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:10:20 EST (#)
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Additionally, you yourself claimed that this was a drunk post. Are you meaning to tell me you've never responded in a similar fashion to another user's drunk post whilst stone sober?
Sorry. I come up with additional arguments far too often after I've tried to let something go. NOW I'm done.
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:06:23 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:03:02 EST (#)
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Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:53:57 EST (#)
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"Going to Uber for life advice is a horrible idea."
Now repeat it and intermittently smash yourself in the head with a hammer. Hopefully you'll never do it again.
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Thanks for the great advice. Very original and quite witty. In all my years of wasting time here. I've NEVER heard that one before.
I'm glad you've learned so much about this place in one month. AND you've got some great advice.
Well done.
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I love it when people who've been frequenting a website longer than others somehow operate under the delusion that they have more "cred", whatever that may be.
That didn't come from experiencing Uber, twatflaps, but from the simple concept that people can be as ZOMG EDGY as they want on the Internet. This was a stupid post, so I rated it as such. In doing so, I also commented, albeit callously, that seeking help for moral questions, particularly on a forum as notoriously savage as Ubersite, could be largely an exercise in futility. If you don't like that, well, I'm sure you have some kind of shoulder to cry on.
That's all. I'm done.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:02:22 EST (#)
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Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:56:32 EST (#)
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good luck with all that.
Thanks and despite the 'you know what you need to do' comments, in the end it is easier said than done. But, something will be done.
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Submitted by triangle_man (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:56:09 EST (#)
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The person who choses to do nothing in the face of a crime is just as guilty as the offender.
PERIOD
Good Luck
Couldn't agree with you more.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:56:32 EST (#)
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good luck with all that.
Submitted by triangle_man (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:56:09 EST (#)
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The person who choses to do nothing in the face of a crime is just as guilty as the offender.
PERIOD
Good Luck
Submitted by TheUniter (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:50:24 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:34:09 EST (#)
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I for one, growing up handicapped don't pass judgment on people because I hate people passing judgment on me.
In the past I've done my share of drugs and have been down that road as well. I've lived with roommates in disgusting places where drugs were used and very nice places where drugs were used. I have friends from all walks of life. Rich, poor, Addicts - whatever their drug of choice may be and friends that have never touched a cig or a drop of alcohol. They're people and adults and it is their business on how they live their lives. This is the first time I've witnessed parents abusing drugs around their children. AND my husband even talked to this dude when they were outside and he admitted that he was fucked up. He didn't say on what, but made it clear there was something going on. My husband, although not much anymore, use to spend a lot of time with him and can tell by his behaviors and actions.
In the end, something will have to be done. It's just a question of what and how it should be handled.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:17:15 EST (#)
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I wasn't trying to be an ass I just had a strong reaction to this and then after reading 90 reviews I saw this:
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve.
and maybe I missed the leave it up to steve or still saw that as "I am not going to do anything" and got riled.
Maybe this hit a little close to home because my son came home and said that a friend of his would not be around for a while because someone at school noticed some bruises and SS visited mom and determined child should stay with dad exclusively while they make sure nohing more is happening. I know this kid and though I've never seen anything it does kind of bother me that he might be living in an abusive environment because he's a great kid.
In the end you drunk posted about something you're concerned about. you may or may not have included all of the reasons you're concerned or any of the other options you might have to deal with this without going to the state first and without the whole picture who am I to pass judgement. I make my own mistakes. If it's as bleak as you've painted it here I hope you do everything in your power to help the child.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:07:06 EST (#)
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Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:54:41 EST (#)
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this actually is making me kind of angry this morning. we haven't really interacted much in the past but I'm pretty much going to write you off and give you a hearty go fuck yourself if you're really just going to ignore this. if there's more to this that you've not included that paints it differently than you have here, well, i guess I won't know. but as it stands here, based on what you've provided, inaction is weak, cowardly, stoopid and a grave diservice to an innocent child.
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Oh please, PLEASE don't write me off. I need you in my life.
Where on earth have I said I or my husband WASN"T going to do something about it. I don't remember saying that anywere so please refresh my memory. I was drunk last night so I guess it is possible.
We ARE going to do something we just don't know what to do at this point. My hub has tried to help without getting the state involved but NOW we both feel we need to but we need to also speak to professionals about the correct way to handle this. How is that being cowardly?
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:04:23 EST (#)
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funny muddy posts that right after my tirade.
I guess I'll dismiss this and appologize for my initial strong reaction. I hope that there's more to it than the base, drunk, description you've provided. My reaction was totally to the description you've provided but for all i know there are chunks the size of texas that are missing from this and possibly missing from the information you have to work on.
I'm going o leave now and I will wish you well and hope you figure out a suitable way to resolve your ddiscomfort.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 11:03:02 EST (#)
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Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:53:57 EST (#)
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"Going to Uber for life advice is a horrible idea."
Now repeat it and intermittently smash yourself in the head with a hammer. Hopefully you'll never do it again.
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Thanks for the great advice. Very original and quite witty. In all my years of wasting time here. I've NEVER heard that one before.
I'm glad you've learned so much about this place in one month. AND you've got some great advice.
Well done.
Submitted by MudWhistle (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:59:08 EST (#)
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i'm just saying that one trip into someone's world does not a sound evaluation make and you better be damn fucking sure about stuff before you go making accusations to the authorities because I've seen more than one family torn to shreds in my life because nosy people got involved when in reality the family could have handled the situation themselves.
this may or may not be true in this instance but your admittedly drunken recollection is nothing more than a smear campaign and you should consider doing a little more one on one with these people, if you care like you say you do, before you start letting loose the dogs.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:58:42 EST (#)
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I said it was a waste because after framing the question you came to the conclusion that you'd rather sit by idly and let it go. Maybe there's more to this that you've not included that could change your mind but as it was posted here it sounds like you should do SOMETHING.
I think i must be having a strong reaction to this because as a father I know that no child deserves to start out like that. I know tons of kids do it, survive it, and go on to better lives but every kid should get a better first shot than what you've described.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:54:41 EST (#)
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"I know the baby's parents love her but I also know they love their drugs and care more about spending their money on their addictions when they should be buying home necessities like toilet paper, Kleenex and paper towels. "
You already know the answer to your question and still you're saying you're not planning on following through. I think the trully scary bit of this is that a child left in a situtaion like that, if it's as dire and bleak as you've painted it here faces a dismal outlook. One of several things can end up happening hereand very few of them seem like a great alternative to state care;
the parents suddenly and magically get thier shit together and the child gets every opportunity in life.
The child continues to live neglected and abused until it s finally old enough to do something on its own to get out.
The child continues to live neglected and abused until it s finally old enough to join in the festivities with mom and dad
the child contnues to live in neglect and abuse until someone else notices or the parents drug habit finally gets them into trouble or dead
the child ends up dead because of the druggy parents.
I know you're not talking physical abuse in the post but this isn't far off. You say the parents love the child but then people who actually beat thier children often make that claim too and often use thier "love" to justify thier harsh actions.
this actually is making me kind of angry this morning. we haven't really interacted much in the past but I'm pretty much going to write you off and give you a hearty go fuck yourself if you're really just going to ignore this. if there's more to this that you've not included that paints it differently than you have here, well, i guess I won't know. but as it stands here, based on what you've provided, inaction is weak, cowardly, stoopid and a grave diservice to an innocent child.
Submitted by Leonore (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:53:57 EST (#)
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Submitted by sicosemen (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:24:22 EST (#)
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Proof that having a cunt gets you on heated.
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Hasn't worked for me yet.
Also, this was pretty weak. Learn this mantra:
"Going to Uber for life advice is a horrible idea."
Now repeat it and intermittently smash yourself in the head with a hammer. Hopefully you'll never do it again.
Submitted by RyuFu (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:51:34 EST (#)
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you guys are really tall
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:51:23 EST (#)
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Submitted by MudWhistle (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:41:09 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:33:46 EST (#)
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Mud - These people know nothing of this site and names have been changed entirely.
And obviously the do NOT care about people knowing of their abuse or they wouldn't have had us or other people over. I know when I have people over my house is clean and I don't disapear into my bedroom every few minutes to speed ball. The only thing that is important to them is getting high.
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really?
I'm only an amateur sleuth but here's my connection....his EX knows about this site...his EX probably knows these people....there could exist a connection, no?
What if you are wrong....what if they just don't like you guys or whatever the situation and that is why the left for the bedroom every few minutes? i'm not saying your assessment of the situation was wrong but sharing it here about real people probably is.
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I see your point and there are two sides to every story. And yes, his X does know about this site but doesn't know this family and frankly if they do read this, which is highly unlikely since they don't even own a computer maybe they'll realize they need some help.
AND
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:43:02 EST (#)
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Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:30:21 EST (#)
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you wasted my time with this poorly written tale of a child in danger, insulted us by basically calling us the dregs of society, asked us for advice on what to do and then 90 reviews later say that you're not going to do anything? that's sad and weak. Does Steve paint this differently? I guess one thing that sticks out is that you make a point to go beyond just general poor housekeeping in your description, you go further by saying there is no food and no general hygenic prodcuts. can any household where the adults do not require ass wipe possibly be a safe and clean environment for a child? That's BASE hygene you're talking about unless you forgot to mention the bidet. whatever. what a waste of my time.
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It was poorly written. I was drunk. Jesus fuck. Everyone drunk posts around here so blow me.
And if this wasted your time to read and write it is nobody's fault but your own. Next time be sure to NOT waste your precious (obviously doing nothing better or wouldn't be here anyway) time responding with a paragraph.
Submitted by MudWhistle (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:41:09 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:33:46 EST (#)
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Mud - These people know nothing of this site and names have been changed entirely.
And obviously the do NOT care about people knowing of their abuse or they wouldn't have had us or other people over. I know when I have people over my house is clean and I don't disapear into my bedroom every few minutes to speed ball. The only thing that is important to them is getting high.
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really?
I'm only an amateur sleuth but here's my connection....his EX knows about this site...his EX probably knows these people....there could exist a connection, no?
What if you are wrong....what if they just don't like you guys or whatever the situation and that is why the left for the bedroom every few minutes? i'm not saying your assessment of the situation was wrong but sharing it here about real people probably is.
My and my mom lived in a fucking Hornet for 4 months when i was a kid but she loved the fucking shit out of me and took care of me and neither of us would have deserved to be separated from the other. I'm just saying there are always 2 sides to every story but not once you post about it on uber.
Submitted by Amontillado (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:36:58 EST (#)
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Why are you even asking? The kid deserves new parents.
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:33:46 EST (#)
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Mud - These people know nothing of this site and names have been changed entirely.
And obviously the do NOT care about people knowing of their abuse or they wouldn't have had us or other people over. I know when I have people over my house is clean and I don't disapear into my bedroom every few minutes to speed ball. The only thing that is important to them is getting high.
Submitted by Brdn_Nkd (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:30:21 EST (#)
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you wasted my time with this poorly written tale of a child in danger, insulted us by basically calling us the dregs of society, asked us for advice on what to do and then 90 reviews later say that you're not going to do anything? that's sad and weak. Does Steve paint this differently? I guess one thing that sticks out is that you make a point to go beyond just general poor housekeeping in your description, you go further by saying there is no food and no general hygenic prodcuts. can any household where the adults do not require ass wipe possibly be a safe and clean environment for a child? That's BASE hygene you're talking about unless you forgot to mention the bidet. whatever. what a waste of my time.
Submitted by sicosemen (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:24:22 EST (#)
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Proof that having a cunt gets you on heated.
Submitted by MudWhistle (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:23:03 EST (#)
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you would certainly be able to see the nod if they were snorting that much OXY or H.
i'm not sure why if people in real life are tracking you down via your posts here, you continue to post names and situations of real life people here.
i'm sure 'dave' wouldn't like to hear about his life being made public.
i dunno....whole thing seems very...misplaced?
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:22:09 EST (#)
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Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:51:42 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 13:48:18 GMT (#)
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And yes people. My grammar sucks, the story was stupid...whatever. I haven't slept the past few nights and this whole incident has my head spinning around like the little girl in the exorcist.
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That's not any kind of excuse.
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I wrote these two bottles in at 3:30 AM. So yeah, I wasn't too worried about my spelling or grammar. Who gives a fuck about that? I'm worried about this poor child which I think is much more important than my spelling at this point.
If anyone has seen the movie Gone Baby Gone, you'll understand what I mean. This babies house is ten times worse then the home depicted in that movie.
And yes. If the child is taken away from her parents she will most likely be placed with her grandmother who takes care of her most of the time anyway.
I know the baby's parents love her but I also know they love their drugs and care more about spending their money on their addictions when they should be buying home necessities like toilet paper, Kleenex and paper towels.
Submitted by wookie (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:14:25 EST (#)
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Dude, if they're doing it every 10-15 minutes, they're snorting speed or coke, not oxy or H.
ANYWAY, please make the call or talk Steve into it. The kid isn't going to end up in a place any worse than where she is now (probably). Best case scenario is she ends up in the hands of a more responsible family member.
Submitted by keitsith (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:13:00 EST (#)
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NOooo i won't turn into a giant frog again !!
Submitted by Bigmike (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:04:39 EST (#)
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Who gives a shit about your grammar and such. Do what you think is right for the child and let somebody know about it.
Imagine how you will feel if this child dies.
Submitted by CaptainThorns (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:57:51 EST (#)
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Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2007-11-08 07:40:11 CST (#)
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Now that you witnessed it, you have an ethical obligation to act in that child's best intrest. Make the call.
Submitted by Anansie (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:55:49 EST (#)
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Does the child have family memebers who will care for her, like grandparents, aunts, or uncles? Talk to your husband about it first. If he is such good friends with the guy, then maybe he can intervene. If he is unwilling to do this, then I suppose you should call ss. Like berty said, kids that end up in ss don't normally do well, but if there are responsible relatives, that is usually where a child in this situation goes.
Submitted by TheDoctor (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:08:03 EST (#)
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No Comment
Submitted by ConorJS (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:07:41 EST (#)
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What do you mean you weren't excited for the game? It was only the most hyped thing in US sports history. What are you, not American or something?
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:52:46 EST (#)
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Oh girls stop fighting!
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:51:42 EST (#)
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Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 13:48:18 GMT (#)
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And yes people. My grammar sucks, the story was stupid...whatever. I haven't slept the past few nights and this whole incident has my head spinning around like the little girl in the exorcist.
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That's not any kind of excuse.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:35 EST (#)
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NEW AND IMPROVED: http://www.ubersite.com/m/113014
Submitted by TigerLilly (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:48:18 EST (#)
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And in the end, I know I won't make the call. I'm going to leave it up to Steve.
And yes people. My grammar sucks, the story was stupid...whatever. I haven't slept the past few nights and this whole incident has my head spinning around like the little girl in the exorcist.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:46:16 EST (#)
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Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2007-11-08 12:25:21 GMT (#)
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Submitted by ameelius (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:11:52 EST (#)
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I remember seeing a picture of you with my love Shlongy. FUCK YOU!
Someone was up at 5am to post THIS. bauahauahauahahahaa
PS. Kidnap the kid...and when you do do, steal the drugs.
And send them to Shlongy
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When you do do??
Submitted by nitty34 (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:44:45 EST (#)
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How can you even be considering 'the right thing to do' in this instance?
You're better than that. You know what to do.
Submitted by forensicgirl3 (user info) at 2007-11-08 08:40:11 EST (#)
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Now that you witnessed it, you have an ethical obligation to act in that child's best intrest. Make the call.
Submitted by indoninja (user info) at 2007-11-08 07:48:45 EST (#)
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Call child protection services you selfish cunt.
If they live close enough to rolling woody roads and antique shops you can just pop into, then it probably isn;t a ghetto and the kid is better off somewhere else.
Submitted by Shlongy (user info) at 2007-11-08 07:25:21 EST (#)
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Submitted by ameelius (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:11:52 EST (#)
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I remember seeing a picture of you with my love Shlongy. FUCK YOU!
Someone was up at 5am to post THIS. bauahauahauahahahaa
PS. Kidnap the kid...and when you do do, steal the drugs.
And send them to Shlongy.
Submitted by TheDoctor (user info) at 2007-11-08 07:07:44 EST (#)
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This is epically retarded on so many fucking different levels it almost hurts.
Submitted by orph (user info) at 2007-11-08 06:19:24 EST (#)
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It seems quite the problem, considering that you yourself are not that close to these people.
I do not think calling SS cold would be the answer, as this can damage the kid more often than not. What does your husband think of this? Are you in a position to help these people at all - i.e. even just going over and cleaning their shithole up, and then warn them that SS will be the next step if nothing changes.
Unfortunately, there are similar situations going on in countless other households, of which you have not been exposed too, and hence do not have the same inclination to assist.
No one can help a junkie if they do not wish for help (especially if they cannot see the problem), and more than likely you will come off, to them, as an interfering busy body if you try to help.
It is a strange situation, in that you have seen this, yet it is not really your problem. I think you should follow your husband's lead on this one, as he is closer to the guy, and knows his history.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:51:49 EST (#)
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t's very hard to get an original email address. Seems like it was even harder 7 years ago when I got that account.
I have over 4000 unread messages, it's ridiculous. I'd change it but what if some old friend wanted to get in touch with me?
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:44:15 EST (#)
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Oh well I was close wasn't I?
yeastmonkey??
Oh social services are the pits in this country.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:41:51 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:38:20 EST (#)
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bertyfromuberatbirmingham.co.uk
was it wrong???
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It's actually yeastmonkey.at.hotmail.com, but it's an easy mistake to make. The keys are, like, right next to each other.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:40:36 EST (#)
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I don't get why people think that Social Services are so awesome. It's a terrible thing for a child! It's like sending them to a Thailand brothel only they don't get as much positive love and attention.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:38:20 EST (#)
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bertyfromuberatbirmingham.co.uk
was it wrong???
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:36:17 EST (#)
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... Seriously Pheely? Oh dear... What address did you send them too?
Submitted by czwij (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:35:37 EST (#)
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this is simple.
rat on them.
cunts like this do not have any right to destroy a young childs life.
i wouldn't take their rights or feelings in a heartbeat if a child is at stake.
they are adults, if they choose to kill themselves, then so be it. thier choice, no excuses.
but the child is innocent until proven otherwise.
the only thing which should be considered is the childs security - nothing else.
jesus i hate stuff like this. it ruins my day....!
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:32:04 EST (#)
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oh and tiger you really need to call someone.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:30:46 EST (#)
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henry's an also ran. In an era where you had/have zidane, ronaldinho, kaka, messi, the portugese ronaldo (that was purely name-calling, not differentiating), pirlo, nesta, paulo maldini, henry's an extra. Look at inzaghi, sure he's a poofter too, and a dickhead, but with all the guile and poise and know-how that fag henry isn't even close to understanding. french world cup defence anyone? ha ha that was a fucking riot. good times. btw the portugese ronaldos goal today was fantastic. So was Inter's comeback.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:24:33 EST (#)
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I know Em is from Bristol but Berty is not!
Berty i sent you the nudy pics, when you did not reply I just thought my secret package was too much for you to deal with.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:22:36 EST (#)
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nah this wont get on most heated, im leaving this post, shall be on Merlinas if anyone cares. Sorry but this post is even shitter than one of yours hurty and i aint flaming it.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:21:11 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:20:01 GMT (#)
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Birmingham. Lordy, you correct my spelling and english when, well, look at the post above!
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He's from Bristol, the inbred cunt! Like most of mine, this post will undeservedly end up most heated. It will get worse when the Seppos wake up.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:20:48 EST (#)
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I'm afraid I recieved nothing Pheely. It's probably for the best.
I totally made the best points by the way, almost always do.
*Berty calls upon the egos of ten Terry Henrys*
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:20:01 EST (#)
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Birmingham. Lordy, you correct my spelling and english when, well, look at the post above!
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:18:43 EST (#)
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No one lives in Biringham you stupid wench
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:18:17 EST (#)
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I am Hurty!
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:17:18 EST (#)
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So really I sent those nudy pics to you yesterday, Em. Oh I thought berty was real. I might have know people do not really live in Biringham.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:17:00 EST (#)
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Berty is my puppet
however yesterday I was Bertys alter, that was when he was being a dirty perv.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:16:11 EST (#)
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Everyone who has posted on this sorry excuse for a post is my alter. I am secretly everyone on ubersite.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:16:06 EST (#)
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Yes, I'm Emissions alter for when he wants to spew inherantly true wisdom.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:15:36 EST (#)
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berty is my alter
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:15:35 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 10:14:50 GMT (#)
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Alters, where? Is berty an alter?
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Seriously.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:14:50 EST (#)
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Alters, where? Is berty an alter?
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:13:37 EST (#)
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Submitted by shandythedog (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:02:28 EST (#)
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She's neglected and two
thank fuck she's not neglected and three!
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BWUHAHAAHAA!
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:13:26 EST (#)
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wowowowowo how many alters!
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:13:23 EST (#)
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Show us your hole, Meeley!
Submitted by ameelius (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:11:52 EST (#)
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I remember seeing a picture of you with my love Shlongy. FUCK YOU!
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:11:49 EST (#)
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Terry Henry is an arsehole, but then he's got a big ego because he is ace.
Submitted by japetus (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:11:20 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:02:39 EST (#)
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Is japetus not a moon you retard?
I assume then you look like a moon.
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I've just remembered that my first post was a camwhore. Shit.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:10:56 EST (#)
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That picture looks stretched.
Submitted by MouthSore (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:10:08 EST (#)
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I say that picture looks a little how shall I put this, thin.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:09:00 EST (#)
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Well of course they aren't fit parents Japeto, they're clearly not middle class enough to take heroin safely.
Still, foster care and state rearing is not a good option for any child. It's pretty darn shitty to be honest.
Then you've got the whole issue of Tiger's hubby losing his friends, the betrayal, the terrible damage it'd wreak on the child's parents... there are lots of factors to consider and that's just from looking at what we know from this small, post-sized, porthole into the situation. I think it's fascinating to be honest. Besides, it's a true story and that's worth something.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:08:30 EST (#)
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At least I ain't stained like the backseat of one, Em.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:08:15 EST (#)
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I don't know if anyone else has noticed but as and aside thierry henry must be the most despicable footballer on the world. ever. yes 'on' the world. like a blight. and the gayest. and the biggest fucking leik omg i scored a goal messi was so lucky i was there fucking fucked up fag cunt ever. What kind of DICKHEAD says shoosh quiet-up to a packed Nou Camp.
maybe they were booing him for goal poaching. that always happened to teddy right?
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Did Henry rape your bum?
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:07:39 EST (#)
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i would imagine you smell like a lot of car interiors
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:06:01 EST (#)
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Its brown. Leather is soft and it makes me smell like a car interior.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:05:59 EST (#)
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I don't know if anyone else has noticed but as and aside thierry henry must be the most despicable footballer on the world. ever. yes 'on' the world. like a blight. and the gayest. and the biggest fucking leik omg i scored a goal messi was so lucky i was there fucking fucked up fag cunt ever. What kind of DICKHEAD says shoosh quiet-up to a packed Nou Camp.
maybe they were booing him for goal poaching. that always happened to teddy right?
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:04:45 EST (#)
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No one should wear a leather jacket except the Fonz.
Oh and hurty over his face.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:04:04 EST (#)
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I am neglected and nearly thirty. Daddy won't buy me a new leather jacket. The bastard.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:03:09 EST (#)
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you stoopid fuckers
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:02:39 EST (#)
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Is japetus not a moon you retard?
I assume then you look like a moon.
Submitted by shandythedog (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:02:28 EST (#)
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She's neglected and two
thank fuck she's not neglected and three!
Submitted by japetus (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:01:06 EST (#)
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Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:59:02 EST (#)
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japetus you moon faced git, I make better points than berty and look, i -2 ed!
To be a lonely, ingnored noob is so little fun.
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How the shit do you know what I look like?
Submitted by japetus (user info) at 2007-11-08 05:00:00 EST (#)
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Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:56:23 EST (#)
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It is a good moral dilemma. I always plus 2 good moral dilemas. It is like having MDMA injected into cerebral cortex and drinking God's daughters cunny juice to me.
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I disagree that it's a "dilemma". The right thing to do, if she genuinely thinks there's a problem, is to tell the relevant authorities. It's an anonymous service, in the UK at least, and is followed by a proper investigative period. If they really are snorting heroin and shit, then they're not fit parents. Trainspotting is evidence of this, surely?
Also, since MDMA has such a shitty taste in your mouth, do you think you would somehow be able to feel that taste in your brain? If so, that would be hellish.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:59:02 EST (#)
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japetus you moon faced git, I make better points than berty and look, i -2 ed!
To be a lonely, ingnored noob is so little fun.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:57:16 EST (#)
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They really should beam live Bristol City matches over to you, so you could see real football.
Arsenal have a player called Gail, thats a bit gay.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:56:41 EST (#)
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Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:55:04 GMT (#)
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i guess it'd be funny when they were trying to sack him. Speaking of a beautiful dance, I watched the first half of Barca v Rangers this morning, inbetween orange juice and shaving and staring into my pantry. Good grief it was like a training run. Nice to see har-har ronaldinho pulling out some tricks again. Lilian Thuram, even at 34, looked legless though. Jesus *I* could run faster. And who names their boy Lilian anyway. Mind you, the prick's won a world cup, so fuck him.
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The Metro newspaper put it very well:
"Rangers humbled by masterful Barca"
or something. Humbled was the key though. Hun cunts.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:56:29 EST (#)
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Also, I feel alot of your posts are based on your life and stuff which is cool.
However, was it not you who had trouble with your blokes ex and stuff?
It seems a bit risky, especially if you are wrong, to be putting this on the net.
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:56:23 EST (#)
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It is a good moral dilemma. I always plus 2 good moral dilemas. It is like having MDMA injected into cerebral cortex and drinking God's daughters cunny juice to me.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:55:04 EST (#)
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i guess it'd be funny when they were trying to sack him. Speaking of a beautiful dance, I watched the first half of Barca v Rangers this morning, inbetween orange juice and shaving and staring into my pantry. Good grief it was like a training run. Nice to see har-har ronaldinho pulling out some tricks again. Lilian Thuram, even at 34, looked legless though. Jesus *I* could run faster. And who names their boy Lilian anyway. Mind you, the prick's won a world cup, so fuck him.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:54:41 EST (#)
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My american football idea doesnt seem to be taking off.
Submitted by japetus (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:54:25 EST (#)
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Both Berty and HBtS make decent points I reckon. What I can't understand, however, is why Berty is +2ing this badly written nonsense?
Submitted by The_Hitcher (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:53:29 EST (#)
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Submitted by theBarron (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:52:23 EST (#)
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I SELL THEM DRUGS, FOR I AM EEEEEVIL!
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Not as evil as me you slag!
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:52:49 EST (#)
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ps. Needs more rape.
Submitted by theBarron (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:52:23 EST (#)
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I SELL THEM DRUGS, FOR I AM EEEEEVIL!
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:50:21 EST (#)
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midget monkeys called Berty smoking a cigar and moving around the pitch on a tricycle
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:50:09 EST (#)
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Also, I agree with what Hurty said. Sorry.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:49:21 EST (#)
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how about midget monkeys.........
Submitted by Berty (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:49:00 EST (#)
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Alright, first things first I resent the statement that all of us on Uber are amoral monsters. It's hypocritical, seeing as you've come here asking this question having clearly already made your mind up as to what you're going to do and purely seeking reassurance from us 'degenerate, selfish bastards'.
Now that you've offended me I feel motivated to lay the uncomfortable truth down; calling social services to take away the child of your husbands oldest friends is a betrayel. It may be the best thing for the child, or it may not as social services aren't all Marie Andrews and Mary Poppins, but at the end of the day it's going to hurt those crack addled friends of your hubby. A lot.
They'll know it was you as well, so they'll be no respite there. Afterall, who else is it going to be? Their dealer?
Still, in spite of that, you've got to look at it more pragmatically. That kid is fucked, whether he ends up in social services or with his crack addict parents he's fucked. At least if he goes to SS he'll grow up to be a petty thief/fat tony-esque goon rather than a tragic child addict. The consequences to his parents will probably be more profound; they will descend a lot further into their addictions and they will probably break up and they will probably kill themselves over it. They'd probably do that anyway though.
You can always take the cowards way out though, you can always do nothing. Your primary obligation is to do what's best for you, seeing as you are one of us self-serving ubersite bastards, and that means talking it over with your husband and making him aware of what you're going to do. If he doesn't like it, if he doesn't want you to call the SS then that'll complicate matters but at least you won't end up doing something behind his back.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:47:00 EST (#)
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yeah you dont want me to be joking, midgets playing american football, now thats one hell of an idea.
Submitted by orphelia (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:46:16 EST (#)
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I think it is kind you are concerned.
However, shoddy cabinets and dirty rugs and even dirty nappys everywhere doesn't make a bad parent. We all have 'bad' days when we have kids when the house is a pig sty. We all have different standards of cleanliness. Besides, if the kids are clean and well fed and clothed, a tidy house is neither here nor there. If it is in a real bad state (like a 'Life of Grime' bad) then perhaps you should speak with them about it first. Untidy housekeeping is not just a sign of drug abuse or laziness but also an indication of depression too.
The disappearing etc is more serious. However, shit like that you have to be certain you have the right end of the stick. Mud sticks and if you make false accusations it can wreck a family. Could they have been arguing or any other shit like that? When me and my bloke disappear like that it is to have a sneaky kiss. Or row. Why not confront them? Then if you still suspect, report them. If they are sniffing whatever, a threat from you migh be all it takes to help them wanna sort themselves out.
Whatever you decide, as long as you are convinced you are doing the right thing then I guess you are.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:45:49 EST (#)
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Means 2 below.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:45:25 EST (#)
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Seriously hopes below is joking.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:45:09 EST (#)
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Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 09:41:09 GMT (#)
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yes emission, american football. You can be an ignoramus and call it gay or you can appreciate it and understand that even an entire nation of complete mingetmen developed a football code which is quite simply, sublime.
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Do you mean midgetmen?? Cause that would be soooooooo cool!! Imagine American football being played just by midgets, you could have one regular sized guy who would be quarter back and tower over the rest of the team, watching as the tiny fellas ran to gather the ball he threw.
hehe danny devito would be my favourite player.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:41:09 EST (#)
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yes emission, american football. You can be an ignoramus and call it gay or you can appreciate it and understand that even an entire nation of complete mingetmen developed a football code which is quite simply, sublime.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:37:18 EST (#)
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I've actually read this now. It was horribly written.
I'm assuming that by 'H', you mean herion, in which case snorting it is a big waste of time. If they were mainlining it'd be more of an issue.
If you give that much of a fuck about your husbands friends child, and I don't see why you would, then call the DHSS or whatever the fuck you guys call it over there.
In conclusion, while I care, this was very poorly written. As was my response.
Submitted by HurtByTheSun (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:33:26 EST (#)
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A wedding Picture. See with it what you may. :/
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I'm not stretching my fucking eyes to see that. Who the fuck gets married in a T-Shirt?
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:32:14 EST (#)
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The browns?? Are we talking american football again
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:31:32 EST (#)
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the browns are black people too
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:31:07 EST (#)
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racist pig!!
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:30:20 EST (#)
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unless they're niggers.
I *SOOOOOOOOOOOO* did not mean that.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:27:44 EST (#)
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And Tiger you call somebody. Friendship schmiendship. jesus.
Submitted by Danger_Ranger (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:01:41 EST (#)
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you married skinny tony?
btw where's everybodys legs?
p.s. are you worried about meeting The Browns in the playoffs? yes or no.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 04:01:34 EST (#)
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Ok now i have read the post.
The reason kids today have problems in later life is due partially to bad parenting, being exposed to things they shouldnt, seeing things they shouldnt and doing things they shouldnt. In an ideal world these people should not be allowed to have kids and many like them BUT they do............ so what can you do?
People should report EVERY incident like this until parents get the importance and responsibilty that comes with having kids. This will happen if people get off their comfy sofa and hassle free lives and do something fucking about it.
If you want to help you know what to do, thing is you already know what to do.
Do it.
Submitted by netimportant (user info) at 2007-11-08 03:50:04 EST (#)
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Uh, call social services. It's a no-brainer, you're talking about a helpless child. Kids are free human beings, not property of their parents, and the idea that it's "none of your business" is bullshit. You witnessed it and now it's your business.
Submitted by EmissionImpossible (user info) at 2007-11-08 03:40:10 EST (#)
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I hope they do Rooster and skin it in front of you, maybe bite its head off.
Does the clerk chew that tobacco stuff and spit it out the side of his mouth into a bin or something? I hope so.
If someone gave me a job and a place to live I would move.
Submitted by ChaosJester (user info)